While we don’t have much control, we have choice! Let’s capitalize on that.

It’s difficult to ignore what’s going on all over the world, we are losing our relatives and friends to covid-19, our peace of mind to media updates, and our jobs and businesses in a bid to stay home and protect ourselves from catching and spreading the Corona virus. I come of a part of the world where I believe hunger though is bigger an issue than the virus itself, most Ugandans don’t have the kind of investments that can stay running and bring them money while they stay at home, and one thing is for sure; they don’t have enough savings to carry them through these uncertain times either, this explains the struggle to keep people at their homes although beating them is a despicable act against humanity, i urge officials to take more humane measures.

Today morning I got myself thinking, while some people have the privilege to own homes or have shelter.. how are the street people dealing? Where are they staying, how are they feeding, how will they survive? This time is a great test of character, leadership is undergoing filteration, we about to separate hypocrites from true leaders! There is a dire need to take action, and to do it fast. Thanks to pastor kayanja for providing and supporting his people with essentials, to the rest of religious, and political leaders it’s time to come to the front and supplement big on what philanthropists and good Samaritans are doing to make sure hunger and depression gives us a break while we deal with the virus at hand.

Meanwhile I want people to understand that the faster we all accept and stay at our homes ( except the essential service providers) the quicker we can all get back to our jobs and running our businesses…

.. Besides your forced stay at home won’t be so bad if you make a conscious choice rather than being beat off the streets or being shoot into hospital like the two unfortunate motor cyclists.

Here is some of the things you can do while prayerfully and patiently waiting for life to get back to normal; take an online class on that thing that you’ve always wanted to learn ( am personally going for digital marketing) finish that project you promised you were gonna get done with once you had time, read some books, reconnect with family and friends, meditate ( you will be gald you did) service your body ( sleep some good hours, work out, try yoga, mind your diet etc) play some fun games with fam, Netflix, repaint your room/ house, start a YouTube channel to encourage and show people how to go through these times, slow down, be present, listen to positive podcasts, assess your work, draw new strategies, set daily goals and whip them through, challenge yourself to do something new, cook….

If you happen to be on lock down with someone you’ve been trying to avoid, I have a msg for you;

Am grateful to have found a beautiful message from BILL GATES and am excited to share with y’all, i hope it will change your perspective, attitude and reaction to what’s going on in the world;

” I’m a strong believer that there is a spiritual purpose behind everything that happens whether that is what we perceive as being good or bad.

As I meditate upon this, I want to share with you what I feel corona/ covid-19 is really doing to us;

1- it is reminding us that we are all equal, regardless of our culture, religion, occupation, financial situation or how famous we are. This disease treats us all equally, perhaps we should to. If you dont believe me, just ask Tom Hanks

2- it is reminding us that we are connected and something that affects one person has an effect on another. It is reminding us that the false boarders that we have put have little value as the virus doesn’t need a passport. It is reminding us by oppressing us for a short time of those in the world whose whole life is spent in oppression

3- it is reminding us of how precious our health is and how we have moved to neglect it through eating poor nutrient manufactured food and drinking water that is contaminated with chemicals upon chemicals. If we don’t look after our health, we will ofcourse get sick

4- it is reminding us of the shortness of life and what is most important for us to do which is to help each other especially these who are old and sick. Our purpose is not to buy toilet roll

5- it is reminding us of how materialistic our society has become and how when in times of difficulty, we remember that it’s the essentials that we need ( food, water and medicine) as opposed to luxuries that we sometimes unnecessarily give value to

6- it is reminding us of how important our family and home life is and how much we have neglected this, it is forcing us back into our houses so we can rebuild them onto homes and to strengthen our family unit

7- it is reminding us that our true work is not our job, that is what we do not what we were created to do. Our true work is to look after each other, to protect each other and to be of benefit to one another

8- it is reminding us keep our ego in check. It is reminding us that no matter how great we think we are or how great others think we are, a virus can bring our world to a stand still

9- it is reminding us that the power of free will is in our own hands. We can choose to cooperate and help each other, to share, to give, to help, and to support each other or we can choose to be selfish, hoard, to look after only our self. Indeed, it’s difficulties that bring out our true colors

10- it is reminding us that we can be patient or panic. We can either understand that this type of situation has happened many times before in history and will pass, or we can panic and see it as the end of the world and consequently cause ourselves more harm than good

11- it is reminding us that this can either be an end or a new beginning, this can be a time of reflection and understanding where we learn from our mistakes, or it can be the start of a cycle which will continue until we finally learn the lessons we are meant to

12- it is reminding us that this earth is sick. It is reminding us that we need to look at the rate of deforestation just as urgently as we look at the speed at which toilet rolls are disappearing off the shelves. We are sick because our homes are sick

13- it is reminding us that after every difficulty, there is always ease. Life is cyclical and this is just a phase in the great cycle. We do not need to panic, this too shall pass

14- whereas many see the Corona virus/ covid-19 as a great disaster, I prefer to see it as a great corrector

This is to remind you of the important lessons that we seem to have forgotten and it is up to us if we will learn them or not ”

Thank you Bill Gates, and as I wind up I would like to leave you a food for thought that I got from a friend also coach and financial advisor; the world is going digital, physical stores and offline retail is slowly but gradually becoming irrelevant. There is no need to go to the diner, supermarket or boutique anymore, we now mostly order almost everything online and get stuff delivered in the comfort of our homes. We don’t carry paper money as much either, we swap cards and use mobile money. The world is changing and so should you because one thing is clear, whether or not you’re ready change is coming and if you dont position yourself well, you’re going to struggle from far behind. Its a good time to learn how to work from home, what can you make or produce from your room, how to advertise online, how to run a business online, how to do deliveries, how to make online transactions and forth.

Blessed are the flexible fore they bend, twist, turn and not be broken by the Storm.

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To healing and leaving healthier and happier lives πŸ₯‚


Dear WOMAN, is it WORTH it?

Happy women’s day ladies, we gem, we lit and we definitely rock. I was meant to publish this on women’s day unfortunately I lost my grand mother a day before. I had traveled far uptown for inspiration, admist my notes preparation received calls that we are one less strong woman. The short notice departure and moment of grief left me unable to draft and publish on time. But thank God, here I am.

First off, like every other human being I am not perfect, I make alot of mistakes, learn and continue to grow! Following a sheer observation from around my community and a stretch I found that women have many challenges some of which am to express in proceed. But as I continue, I warn you not to take anything personally and remind you that I am not judging anyone, I really do care to see more happy, healthy and healed women, am simply a woman looking out for my fellow women

I have come up with the expression, the street is a big league and iam a small player. This is a humble reminder to stay in my lane and not be bamboozled into the latest trends and stuff. Ladies one of our biggest challenge today is Comparison!

Comparison, is the world’s biggest joy stealer and why most people are undeniably miserable and depressed, thinking about this sent some memories home, i remembered a song I used to love in my primary school, I’ve not cared to find out who the artist was or what the title is but these lines are firm printed in my DNA, it goes like this;

Can some body explain to me,

What everybody is trying be,

Living like a celebrity,

They do what they see on MTV..

Well, yeah I like my clodes, shoes, bags and gadgets designer or simply clean and cute but I am not about to sleep with a man to get money to buy some. That’s ridiculous, don’t we all agree? But why are girls doing it? C. O. M. P. A. R. I. S. O. N it’s not only making you bitter, resentful, jealous, envious and unproductive but also sick mostly with STDs, it comes with cancer too as returns from trying to win the perfect girl, perfect life contest.

I am trying to bring this on as lightly as possible but I am bewildered. Try to laugh at this;

The phone is the most relatable in my country, I always see memes on fb like; sell your kidney to buy the latest iPhone, or play 100 different trick on sugar daddy to get phone this or phone that! But let’s be honest, you’re not killing yourself because you dead dig the new amazing features on, you only want it because someone else got it and now you feel left out. Here is my advise though; DONT BREAK YOUR VAGINA, IF YOU WORK A LITTLE HARDER YOU CAN BUY ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING! Only then you’ll find out it’s not what you really need and materials don’t bring meaning, purpose, fulfillment or joy in your life.

At some point, “skinny girls are hot“.. You starve yourself close to death! Then “curvy is cool” .. You go for plastic surgery! “Brown skin trends” .. You bleach! Then “black is beautiful” .. You despair! My dear sister if you keep living up to the media buzz we won’t recognize you in a few years. The worthy question here is, the people you trying hard to impress, do you think they care? Accept and learn to love yourself. What you think of yourself holds the most value. We need more women walking with ” i am who I am, love me or leave me” attitude.

And oh, oh! There are some girls who lucky like me hold their standard high, and have much value and respect for themselves and their bodies, and so they work descent jobs and they don’t date for or chase money but they also do fall in the “comparison trap” and end up spending all their hard earned money on trying to look like a success to impress people they don’t know, who most certainty don’t care and might even be broke instead of saving and investing to grow their business and live their dreams

Because one believes oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others.

Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need other’s approval.

Because one accepts oneself, the world accepts him or her β€” Lao Tzu

Cosmetics, we have people unconsciously refusing to accept and love themselves which has birthed to more challenges, in a bid to look like the model who doesn’t look like the model herself , thank you for making billions of dollar for the beauty industry which is okay until they trick you into thinking “you’re not good enough” so you keep running back for more and more except satsification never ensues

Like playing with your money and emotion is not enough, they now after your health, most of the cosmetics on market contain harmful chemicals and without a doubt your longevity and well being are at stake.

How much more do we have to go on to finally make you realise that your natural hair is the real deal. GOD don’t make mistakes but you using harsh chemicals to relax your hair is a big one.

Be absolutely conscious with the products you put in or on your body!!!!!!!!

Make up is absolutely okay when you use it occasionally to compliment or flatter your look for a big occasion or gathering but using it day in and day out, especially to hide your insecurities is a lame move. Take that mask off Woman, YOU’RE ENOUGH! you’re uniquely imperfectly and beautifully you. That’s your super power. Snap out of the lie and come take over the world.

Feminism, talking about taking over the world, some women take it literally. To better understand where I am coming from, let me start by asking you a question, what is the purpose of a woman’s creation? In the beginning Hawa ( Eve ) was created because Adam was bored, he needed company, comfort! How things changed so fast? I’ll tell you! When women started to think that they can be equals to men. Wait, don’t you know that you were created from a man’s rib? How can that equation ever balance without causing a menace?

I am not implying that women have limits, what a man can do a woman can do better as long as she runs back in time to take care of her babies ( kids and husband) because like it or not, that’s the fundamental reason for your creation!

Women are exalted spiritually, our strength is in our tenderness we have no real need to be physically the same with men. Let’s fight worthy battles fore what we need is to instill values, nurture and enable growth and development in our homes instead of trying to be like men.

If we had more women teaching their baby boys that; a woman is a precious gift one to be handled with utmost respect, loved and adored. We wouldn’t have men treat women like animals but blame yourself because you were out trying to work 5 to 7 like a man you forgot to be a mother, now we have young girls who know and understand their power but have no clue how to use it the right way and young men who feel disempowered and in a fight to gain their respect and position that’s how we clashed

What you call gender based violence, i call ego based violence, we have a lot of women dying because men these days were not nurtured at all! Much like playing a video game but skipped tutorial, they’re fumbling all over the place, you ignored them! You were busy trying to attain status, but how is an empowered woman six feet under a success? We needed someone to tell this boy that a real man never hits a woman. But ahem, you were busy teaching the girl a man should never hit you! But every time she says you don’t beat a woman, she gets slapped in the face, i think its about time you give the boy child his needed attention.

When it comes to divorce, it’s obvious two captains can’t sail a ship! Everything needs a leader, one who makes the final decision, who has the final say! We have now experienced the mess that comes out of trying to run a family equally! How are rules supposed to be implemented without a leader to impose them. Quote me well, I said a leader not a dictator!

Imagine for a second a world where a man and woman both know their responsibility in a home, know when to lead and when to follow. Respect each other, listen to each other. They both support and help each other to grow to become the best version of themselves, bring their kids up to together. They have their egos in check and choose love and understanding over scores. I want to live in a world close to that

My heart breaks for single parents and the kids who have to grow up with one not both but sometimes it’s better to walk away from something that doesn’t serve you anymore. Ladies set your priorities straight do you want to be men or to build strong and happy families? One thing is clear, you won’t get both and so choose wisely.

Thanks for coming this far, actually this turned to be one of the shortest but heaviest to put into words! It’s our responsibility as woman to make the world a better place, we have immense powers and fires that burn within us let’s direct it all towards good. It’s not us against men, it’s us for us making us better complimenting each other, standing up and fighting for what we believe in as long as it’s worthy. Please stop wasting you’re energies worrying, complaining and comparing and i dont feel I can ever say this enough but accept and learn to love the woman in the mirror. Most importantly be happy and stay fly.

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Grit, or spirit?

Creativity is not a magical act of inspiration, it’s the result of hardwork and dedication – The creative habit by Twyla Tharp

There people with half your talent, riding waves and building big brands because they had the balls to suck at something new, the self discipline to do what they gotta do even on days they didn’t feel like, the courage to get back on their feet after big defeats and the resilience to stick until they reaped the gold

Am unsure how long it would have taken me to finally figure that “drawing is not a gift for the choosen few” if I hadn’t read the book Mindset: The new psychology of success – Carol.S.Dweck recommended by Bill gates. Until then may be I would have gone to the ground convinced that I can never ever draw, because let’s be honest I am so horrible at it ( hogwash! Nonsense, there are no natural geniuses) you can’t begin to imagine the look on my face when I learnt that with practise over time you can acquire the skill set to do just about anything

Below are the before and after self portraits of people that took a short course in drawing from the author, Betty Edwards. Before, when they just entered her course and after, five days later when they had completed it ( from Mindset – Carol.S.Dweck)

I don’t care for drawing or sports for that matter but even though I love writing and speaking, I didn’t think I’m capable of having a brilliant article to my name or making it to a big stage in a hall filled with thousands, I bet we all have that i am not good enough syndrome that lingers through day and haunts us by night which can only be silenced by confidence, and confidence my dears comes with preparation. If you are going to write a paragraph, read a chapter from a book and learn new words everyday, eventually you’ll most certainly become great at writing. The biggest challenge though is, we want to be, without becoming!

I know a better actor than Will Smith, a better singer than Taylor swift, a better football player than Christiano Ronaldo, a better basket ball player than Kobe Bryant, a better writer than J.k Rowling, I can speak better than Sheila Gashumba, Malaika Nyanzi and Flavia Tumusime put together! But what separates them from the rest? Ladies and gentlemen, it’s their Will power! They might have the ability but it’s their boldness, hardwork and persistence that highlights them from other talents.

You can’t be good at everything but you most certainly can be the greatest at something!

You can achieve anything you set your mind to! If you’re crazy enough to think it’s possible, then it’s possible, you just have to find a way that works. It comes with trial and error, failing, fixing, starting over, losing some, sacrificing others… the bigger percentage of the human race is not up for the challenge. They want to get what they want but not willing to do what it is necessary to get it. You’re capable but the million dollar question is, are you willing?

Are you willing to stay up at night when everybody goes to sleep? Are you willing to train more hours after everyone has left? Are you willing to leave your precious family behind? are you willing to jump out of your cozy comfy bed every morning? Are you willing to endure the pain, shame and misjudgement? Are you willing to invest when all your fellows are buying into the latest trends? Are you willing to be laughed at and called crazy? Are you willing to cheer your own self and keep going when no one believes in you? Are you wiling to invest in learning to acquire more skills to help you manouver here and there? Are you willing to take risks? Are you willing to be broke for sometime? Are you willing to try again after it all burns to the ground?

Earlier this year, I took a break from Mcing to grab a bottle of water, a man probably in his late 50s walked up to me and asked, “at your age, how do you know all this?”. I love compliments as much as I love criticism so I smiled and answered, ” I don’t know, it’s a gift” it’s only after he walked away that I realised part of that is not true, I have been told all my life I have a beautiful voice, that’s a natural gift that am grateful for but what comes out of my mouth is craft and pure creativity. I have to read alot of books, listen to audios, watch videos, mimic mentors, write, re write, write again, re phrase, run to Google for sec, go through my notes, make voice notes, make a little more, send them out to friends for review and then re do.. It’s alot work!

I guess what am trying to zero down to is I might have a “the voice” ( grit, natural ability) but I have to put in a great amount of work to get people to listen to what I have to say, and I am willing! now, that, that is the spirit.

You have to work hardest for the things you love the most. It’s all about what you want to look back and say – Billie Jean King. You can look back and say ” I could have been” polishing your unsued endowments like trophies or you can look back and say, ” I gave my whole for the things that I valued” – Carol.S.Dweck

Thanks for reading dearyπŸ’•πŸ€— please let me know your thoughts on this in the comments down below

Remember to JOIN THE WELLNESS MOVEMENT; say no to chemicals, say no to plastics, go green, do natural!

To healing and living healthier and happier lives πŸ₯‚

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25 things I’ve learnt in 25 years.

All of life is peaks and valleys, don’t let the peaks get too high or the valleys too low – John Wooden

And then she turned 26 years old, she has a calmness in her mind and a fine rhythm in her heart beat that reassures that life with all its highs and lows is nothing but beauty full, see her name is Shad she is not your usually average type she is unique all the way nothing she does is ordinary. she breathes a gentle intensity, has a fire in her soul, an eagle eye and a lion’s attitude. she could have died at 8 months, a menace then would have befallen the world for she inspires greatness. she moves with vigour, speaks with power, acts with courage and she has one of those smiles that shows that her soul is nothing but beautiful beneath her skin. she knows who she is, what she wants and where she is going… now let me tell you, the warrior in her is unstoppable.

So much for blowing my own trumpetπŸ˜‚ the truth is am a weakling with a really mighty, big and strong God. I feel so blessed for my plus one now how about I share with you what I’ve learnt over the years;

Allah is the most powerful and prayer is the strongest weapon, life is a battle field I have learnt to choose my wars wisely and fight each one of them with God, fore those who let God fight their battles win even before the match. i have seen transformation in my life that I never deemed possible, I testify to the times I acknowledged that I am weak and I can’t help myself allowed and let God and merged a winner, praying will open doors to all sorts of miracles.

We are all here for a purpose, the best day of your life is the day you find out why you were created. There is a reason for each and everyone of us existence and that reason is to give, serve and to share our gifts and talents to add value unto others. Passion is what fuels purpose, you know those things that you love and enjoy doing? Yeah, they’re connected to your purpose you just have to find a way to use it to help others.

What you give is what you get, i heard a story of a woman who used to pray for everyone except herself but at the end of the day what she prayed, hoped and wished for others came back to her. You have to get out of your way and give the things that you want. If you want to be loved, love. If you want to be forgiven, forgive. If you want money, give money. You want people to be kind to you, well then be kind to them and understand one thing sometimes the person you’re kind to may be callous and rude to you but the kindness in its self will find its way back at you in anyway possible

Be a good receiver, it’s not enough to be a giver you also need to be good at receiving! Accept and Allow yourself to receive the love, kindness and all the good there is.

Dont be a judge, no human being who has existed before or who is gonna walk on earth will ever be perfect and so it’s not your place to Judge anyone but it’s your responsibility to love, respect and pray for everyone no matter how bad we think they are. Hate the sin not the sinner, most times we underestimate the power of praying for people and treating them right. We need to show people what kindness is. spread peace. How people treat you is a reflection of what they are going through and how you treat them is who you are! Always take the high road where you treat people better than they treat you, when someone hurts you or throws you hate they’re having it way bad than you .. So Send them love, joy, peace, forgiveness and understanding

Think about death often, not to be scared but to be inspired to focus on what matters, it helps to curb and keep our lustful desires in check! Knowing one day you’re gonna be gone and all your possessions won’t belong to you anymore pushes you to attach very less meaning to material and worldly things and instead work toward impacting, helping and adding value onto others

Read alot of books, knowledge is the fore runner to experience! The more knowledge you have the more prepared you’re to experience something in your life and so if you want to be an abundant person study abundant people to understand their characteristics, personalities, values and qualities – Joe Dispenza

Challenges are good for us, difficulties play a decisive and undeniable role in personal growth and development. Had there been no tests and tribulations in life piety, human merit and worth would not have value, and self discipline, and self restraint would have no relevance. Similarly, if difficulties did not exist and were every effort to lead to spontaneous success, there would not have been any motive for struggle and advancement would have come to a stand still. Accordingly the pinch of difficulty and failure is not only not harmful it brings dormant capacities into action and completes a man’s moral character and make up – from the book “Ethics and spirtual growth”. the juice is in growth, what you become in the process is much more important than what you achieve and challenges help you to grow into the person who fits the size of your dreams.

It’s the small things that matter, giving someone or something your consistent undivided attention is better than doing something big occasionally

happiness is not a destination, its a choice! why postpone happiness for the future when you can have it all day long everyday for the rest of your life? please read Happiness is here, not there

Life is not happening to us, it’s responding to us, we create our own realities what we think we become. if only you knew the power of your thoughts you would never think a negative thought again. rich and successful people think and talk about what they want most of the time. unsuccessful people focus on what they don’t want and we all know what you focus on expands, where attention goes, energy flows and results start to show.

Your life is a total sum of your perspective, attitude and reaction, two people with the same privileges and tribulations can be leading two different lives. An optimist will see an opportunity in a challenge, have an attitude of gratitude and do the right things while a pessimist in the same situation will see an obstacle in the opportunity, complain and end up messing up.

Love is rare, infact what we have are contracts, people don’t care about energy and how they feel anymore lately its all about what the other person has to offer! THIS NEW CONTRACT disguised as love comes with alot of conditions and expectations it’s no longer about nurturing, helping and serving someone’s growth. People get into relationships to survive. This ain’t love please give it another name.

Love yourself and take good care of your body, until you love, value and respect yourself you will never be able to give the same to someone else. If you dont have $5 can you give someone $5? NO! Same thing when you don’t feel good, you can’t Make anyone else feel good about themselves. Love should begin with you, once you love you, you love the whole world, it’s easy and it’s delicious to love everybody and everything.

5/95 rule, the mind is divided into two; conscious or logical mind and subconscious mind which is our deeply rooted emotions. We operate from the sub conscious mind 95% all our choices and what we do from the moment we wake up until we sleep is getting command from the subconscious and we don’t have active control over it. It keeps collecting information from the time we are born henceforth. If you got fears and limiting beliefs you can change your subconscious mind by repeating instructions out loud ( declarations and positive affirmations) meditating, praying etc

You are a master of your silence, but a slave of your words. You can’t be held accountable for what you did not say. I have learnt that when I have nothing kind, inspiring or encouraging to say then my silence is better because a tongue might not have bones but it’s strong enough to ruin a life. And that death feeling I get after saying something disheartening to someone is not worth it.

The best medicine, is love, gratitude, forgiveness, laughter and connecting with other people

Dream big, have vision and set daily goals, if you dont know where you’re going you’ll stay where you are! If you have no north star you’ll keep wandering off in all directions which will make it hard to get to your destination.

its the spirit not grit, that makes great men. There are people with half the talent that you got making big names and brands because they had the balls to suck at first times, the self discpine to push themselves and invest in the much needed effort to do what they gotta do even on days when they didnt feel like, the will power to rise above the challenges and pick themselves up after big defeats. with practise and patience all of us can paint, all of us can play basket ball, all of us can write great articles. if you are willing to do the work you can be anything.

Perseverance and patience, is the part that most people hate but a test one must pass to achieve anything of greatness. All successful people had that dip where they had to persevere in the face of adversity. If you’re going to win at anything, you’ve got to cleave onto it until it betides.

Fear is an illusion, this is what holds man back the most, the fear of the unknown, the fear of opinions, fear of failure etc but if you can stand boldy and look fear right in the face it shrinks and disappears. We are powerful beyond measure, we have so much potential to create beautiful things but all great things are on the other side of fear.

Comparison is an insult, when you try to become someone else you can only live up to their level when you focus on being the best version of yourself you got no limits! Comparison will make you bitter, resentful, jealous, envious and un productive besides, you have no idea what the other person is dealing with behind curtains or how much they survived to get where they are, you will be shocked to find out that half of what they deal with might kill you, focus on your own journey, run your race at your pace.

Chemicals are a big threat, From the food we eat, to the air we breath, cosmetics, Medicines we take, to the relaxers we use on our hair, mattresses, cleaning detergents, air fresheners, plastic food containers and plastic drink bottles etc our entire lives are in jeopardy! No wonder we are weaker, we get sick often and die at very early ages. Let’s go back to being naturalπŸ™πŸΎ

Health is not the absence of disease, its a state of complete spiritual, mental, physical and social well being. When you have one but not the other you’re not considered healthy, soon enough a handicap in one affects the other to be healthy you have to cut across once you do you achieve a balance and harmony peace and happiness become yours.

Just do it, you have this one life don’t waste it playing it safe never knowing what its like to dare. Old people don’t regret the things they did, they regret what they didn’t do. So Go for it, if you fail atleast you tried, if you win well enjoy, live a little we all wind up dead anyway, take that risk, do that hike, dont hesitate. The little voice in your head saying don’t do it is a sign that you need to do it.

Follow your heart, your head has limits!

Shad πŸ–€

You have to GIVE, to GET.. It’s a law!

I remember watching this video and thinking to myself what a brilliant illustration of how the world works! What you give into the world is what you get, it’s cliche right? You heard this before for sure but how many times have you tried to live your life on such a principle?

(please watch thisπŸ‘‡πŸΎ before you continue, it’s mind blowing)

“There is an abundance out here but most people have a scarcity mindset, when they accidentally make some money they try to save it, they are so afraid to put it out there because they think if I put it out again, what if I don’t get it back! How many of you have actually had that moment before? You had a lucky moment where something came in and you wanted to go for the next thing but you played it safe.

That’s not how energy works, energy works in flow what goes out, must come in, this is flow, this is energy, it’s not up to you, its a law and that is the abundance mindset. Meaning there is enough to go round for everybody, when you win other people don’t lose, when you make more money nobody makes less, everyone can make more money” Eric Ho

Let this free token of wisdom come home

Every human being has a need for growth, and growth means to want more but in our social conditioning we misinterprete wanting more as greed. People are always like be satisfied with what you have but on the other side there is a saying “if you’re not growing you are dieing” people always saying you should be grateful for what you have, why do you keep chasing the next thing. What I say is Be grateful for what you have and keep aiming higher and higher, go for the next level, you get this blessing of this one experience of this physical life and you’re just gonna play this let me just stay in this safest game ever! You’re not gonna experience the whole thing, you’re not gonna experience the whole ride – Eric Ho

I want us to understand that it’s alright to have more, be allergic to average, God didn’t create you to play it safe, stop creating all these delusional spiritual fights, stop being at war with yourself because your whole being is craving growth but you have limiting and fear based deep rooted beliefs. Being broke doesn’t make you holy, rich people have higher chances of going to HEAVEN because they help alot of people, they do charities, build hospitals, employ people so they can provide for their families in turn. Don’t you want to travel around the world and create memories? But sorry boo you don’t just smile at the airport and somehow get to your destinations, you need money. Money is good, i love money, imagine the feeling of eating where ever in the world you want without checking on the left side of the menu, how is that freedom a bad thing?

But get this, if you are getting nothing, it’s because you are giving nothing! For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction which means that for every thought, every intent and every step there is an equal and opposite consequences. Give out good and good will come back to you in un expected ways, give bad and there is no exception to the rule. Karma is a real thing! Something as small as a word of encouragement, an act of kindness, a penny.. Once you give it out, believe it or not you will get it back.

So what are you waiting for? Start giving

And don’t say you got nothing to give, there is always something you can give, a smile is free, a listening ear is free, inspiration is free, hugs are free, food for one person is enough for two.. Share it. Are you a good cook? bake some cookies, make a dish and send it to someone for free. Are you a good artist, draw someone’s face on a piece of paper, they will definitely light up once they see it, volunteer to do community work, sign up for that charity run, find people to coach on anything you’ve learnt and might be of value to them, cheer someone on, believe in someone, push someone, compliment someone. Find away to give when you have nothing is when you need to give more!

Shad πŸ’•

Oh well, I am going through hell…

… Transformation doesn’t happen when things are easy, when everything is going your way, when things are just unfolding and coming to you and you’re manifesting money, and opportunities and success and the right people, that’s not when transformation comes…

Transformation happens and change happens in the messiness of life, in the adversity, during the challenges, during the upset, during the times that you want to scream and run and kick and shout and get out of this as quick as possible

But recognize that those moments are here to push you forward and to help elevate you, to realise what’s not working for you so you can start changing and transforming into the person you need to be to start manifesting more of what you want

You see break down and adversities and challenges are a good thing, welcome them as scary as it may seem to be going through some horrible change or challenge or someone bullying you or whatever it may be that you’re going through, as much as it may be un comfortable in that moment..

You have to realise that this is all elevating you to the next level, you just have to be willing to recognize that good things are coming your way, and when something challenging happens it’s setting you up for a better you. You’ve got to be willing to take it, own it, perceive it, learn from it and move into that transformation – LEWIS HOWES

God doesn’t send the trouble, but he allows things to happen, we may not understand it but I have never come out of a scary place where I wasn’t better, when it was all said and done when I look back I can see how it made me stronger, more confident, wiser, it gave me a greater trust in God, it put me closer toward my destiny.

Anytime you’re going to move forward, anytime you’re about to take new ground there will be opposition, people trying to discourage you, things you don’t understand…

The people that reach their destiny aren’t moved by what’s not working out, they know God is in control that He is directing their steps, that what was meant for harm, he is going to turn to their advantage, they know that SET BACK IS REALLY A SET UP FOR GOD TO DO SOMETHING GREATER, that opposition is a sign that promotion is coming, healing is coming NEW LEVELS ARE ON THE WAY – Joel Osteen

And so, oh well I am going through hell.. But I love it!!!

Shad πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

Freedom to fail

Success is not built on success. It’s built on failure. It’s built on frustration. Sometimes it’s built on catastrophe – Sumner Redstone

Alittle distraction is the magical ingredient and we all need a pinch of it. Consistence without a disruption is simply a routine, disruption means moving from the status quo to the cutting edge.

No one has life all figured out, we all fail at something. That’s just the way it is

The secret to success is making the right decision, you only make the right decision when you’re experienced and experience comes from failing time and over!

In the beginning, you have to be bold enough to suck at something new. Listen it’s your first time, or second or third, I don’t know how long it’s going to take you but one thing is obvious, you’re most likely to fail a couple of times before finally figuring out how to do it right. And so, you have to be okay with failing.

Failure is not a sign of stupidity but lack of experience and skill.

How do you gain experience? By going over something again and again. And that means refusing to give up at it until you win. Be persistent!

Colonel sanders recipe was rejected 1009 times! If he gave up there would be no Kentucky fried chicken. Jeff Bezos’s online store ‘zshops” ultimately failed, if he had given up there would be no Amazon. Walt Disney’ s theme park concept was trashed 302 times, if He had quit there would be no Disney land. Howald Schultz was turned down by the banks 242 times, there would be no Starbucks if he accepted failure on the two hundred fouty secondth time.

“Facebook wasn’t the first thing I built, I also built chat systems and games, study tools and music players. And l am not alone JK Rowling was rejected 12 times before she finally wrote and published Harry Potter, even Beyonce had to make hundreds of songs to get Halo.

The greatest successes come from having the freedom to fail. And I think people ask what mistakes should you avoid making, and my answer to that question is don’t even try to avoid making mistakes, because you are gonna make tons of mistakes and the important thing is actually learning quickly from whatever mistake you make and not giving up!

There are things every single year of Facebook’s existence that could have killed us or made it so that it just seemed like moving forward and making alot of progress just seemed intractable, but you just kind of bounce back and you learn, nothing is impossible, you just have to keep running through the walls” Mark zuckerberg

Nothing can stop you, if you don’t stop for nothing!!

Shad πŸ–€

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